Choosing a speaker

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Choosing a speaker

What gives a funeral service its lasting impact? Often, it's the heartfelt words shared and the voices that speak them. As you come together with loved ones to plan a meaningful tribute, consider carefully who will take part in speaking. From delivering eulogies to sharing personal memories or readings, each role offers a chance to honor a life well lived. Choosing the right person for each moment can bring comfort, connection, and deeper meaning to the ceremony.

Who Should Speak?

Consider inviting family members, close friends, or colleagues who had a significant relationship with the deceased. Each speaker can offer a unique perspective and share personal stories that highlight the individual's character and impact on their lives.

What Should They Share?

Encourage speakers to share heartfelt memories, anecdotes, and lessons learned from the deceased. This can create a more personal and relatable atmosphere, allowing attendees to connect with the stories being shared.

How Long Should They Speak?

Aim for each speaker to keep their remarks between 3 to 5 minutes. This ensures that the service remains engaging and allows multiple speakers to share their thoughts without overwhelming the audience.

Should You Prepare Them?

It can be helpful to provide guidance to speakers on what to include in their remarks. Offering a few prompts or themes can help them feel more comfortable and focused during their speech.

What If They Are Nervous?

Reassure speakers that it’s normal to feel nervous. Encourage them to practice their speech beforehand and remind them that the audience is there to support and honor the memory of the deceased.

Can You Include Non-Traditional Speakers?

Absolutely! Non-traditional speakers, such as a mentor, a neighbor, or even a pet, can add a unique touch to the service. Their contributions can provide a broader view of the deceased's life and relationships.

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We invite you to visit Nichols Bewley Funeral Home and experience a warm, peaceful setting where you can honor your loved one.

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At Nichols Bewley, we actively participate in the community through a range of initiatives. Our efforts include providing educational programs about end-of-life planning, engaging in charitable events, and organizing memorial activities, among other significant contributions.